They try very hard to pick you apart They say horrible things about you; it seems right to react the way they are acting towards you. If you do that-that will kill your character/integrity. Stick with acting the way that will better you and your life, a lot of people won’t understand why they can’t get a reaction out of you, but you can’t live life based on the thoughts and expectations of others. Live life knowing that on the other side of what ever it is you're facing there is happiness and peace.
Hold on to your integrity and dignity, never let anyone take that away from you. People can only try to do things to you, the only way they succeed is if you let them.